Posted on Fri, 17 August 2018
Everything you would like to experience in life is just beyond F.E.A.R.
False Evidence Appearing Real.
Telling the Absolute Complete Truth.
So, TACT is a tool with which we remind ourselves about levels of truth and how we use them.
Using TACT in your life does not give you permission to be hurtful, disrespectful or rude, however it encourages you to tell the whole truth and nothing but the truth when stating your needs, telling your story, dealing with situations or expressing your feelings.
What happens when you don’t tell the truth?
Not telling the truth in a relationship (any relationship) is like not watering a plant - you end up killing something that once was alive and growing. The inevitable result of holding back the truth from someone you care for is that you end up holding back the love as well.
Posted on Thu, 16 August 2018
To ready yourself on all levels for attracting your life partner takes commitment and time. If you had a goal to move to a new city, or country, it would take you months or even years of preparation before you were actually ready to make the move. You would have to envision where you would like to work and live and what type of lifestyle you’d like to create. You’d probably like to have a good clear out of your drawers, your closets and your paperwork and any other clutter in the garage or shed to stream line your life so you could begin your new life with a clean slate. It’s the same principles when you are readying yourself to meet your soulmate. You need to clear the clutter from the past and create physical, mental, emotional and spiritual space in your life...Read More
Posted on Wed, 15 August 2018
Now, I am a mum of a young toddler I get to watch a lot of Disney animation, some are sleep inducing and others great entertainment. In my eyes Moana is truly awesome and if you haven’t seen it, do yourself a favour and make sometime to see it. The story is to save her island home Moana, a plucky teenager must set sail and journey into the blue beyond. The film is a great adventure for all. However, the symbology is eye opening and immense for the thinking and aware adults. Maui is a great character… full of Demi God mischief, ego and sometimes misdirected purpose, but has a good heart. Heihei the chicken is there as comic relief. The fiery lava giant is a “really angry bitch” who wants revenge (not surprising so because her heart was stolen a 1000 years ago) She is covered with a lava...Read More
Posted on Tue, 14 August 2018
The divine gave us human relationships in various forms for one reason: we are to learn from one another. One is in a sense our guru, our teacher. Children teach us, they discipline us; we have to learn endless patience and how to reach out of ourselves, outside our own selfishness and self-interest, in order to help mould their lives correctly. We in turn are their gurus, for it is our responsibility to guide and train them and give them the best possible start in life.
From all these relationships we acquire an expansion and purification of our love and I believe that, in the ultimate sense, only love can change others. If you approach a child, or a husband or anyone, in that consciousness of love and endless understanding no matter what they say or do, no...Read More
Posted on Mon, 13 August 2018
In today’s psychologies and therapies there is often an unspoken, but clear salvational tone. If you could only learn to be assertive, loving, angry, expressive, contemplative, or thin, they imply, your troubles would be over. In the Middle ages and Renaissance ‘self-help books were cherished and revered but were never a cure all and didn’t promise the sky. They gave recipes for good living and offered suggestions for the practical, down to earth philosophy of life… I must say I am interested in this humbler approach, one that is more accepting of human foibles.
Jung, one of our most recent doctors of the soul, said that every psychological problem is ultimately a matter of spirit. A spiritual life of some kind is absolutely necessary for psychological ‘health’; at the same time,...Read More